Compatibility & Compromise Requirements: Learn What is Certain & Negotiable & How to Express Yourself Confidently

Too much compromise strains relationships. Learn how to create requirements in dating, or create healthy negotiation if in relationship.

Who is this course designed for? Super Singles or Couples or Anyone that desires to know what is of utmost important to them, and those things you can negotiate - massively learn about yourself so you can be more Confident in who you are.

Take this course personally or with a group and learn from each other. It includes HeartWorkSheets with powerful, life-transforming questions that lead you to the truth, which sets you free.

Confidence is attractive....dare I say sexy even.

When you have confidence, you have requirements. You have a value system that must be honored.

When you stand up for yourself and your values and what is important to you, others do too.

We teach people how to treat us.

But, here's the deal. We either work with God, in flow, in sync, or we fight against the current.

I am talking about You Reap What You Sow - it is the Law of Attraction. That which you put out into the Universe, comes back to you! Can you believe it! It's true.

This also means your Confidence in who you are and staying true to you - I am talking about not compromising yourself and your values, for another human being, or for someone to like you or date you.

When you stay true to what I call your Certain Compatibility Requirements: You will elevate your dating pool. You will suddenly be dating more respectable dates. When you rise, everything else around you rises too. It is a reflection You Reap What You Sow / The Law of Attraction. Because when you stop compromising yourself, you are honoring yourself. Everything good flows from there.

I've got this cool tool called the Compatibility Compass that is helping daters get real about what they absolutely cannot negotiate, those things they can, and staying true to it.

You can date with full Confidence. And when you do, watch magic happen! I am serious as a miracle here. If you want testimonies, ask us or listen to some videos here.

I am not talking about arrogance here. Over-givers confuse confidence with arrogance.

This is a travesty.

You want your date proud of you...to feel that they can rely upon you in the future...that you can bring it.

But more importantly: If you don't dig you, your date can't dig you.

Without confidence, they will become disinterested quick.

By taking this course, you begin to sow new, healthy thoughts and ways of being...and you will reap likewise. This is great news.

You are an amazing human being - with a uniqueness and gifts only you can bring. If you do not believe this and are not grounded in Divine confidence - your dating and relationship success has been most likely dismal.

This Compatibility module builds YOU up. It helps you know yourself so that you can dig yourself. You must present yourself to your date with confidence.

This course is included in my BIG Course: Unleash Your SuperHero Program...so if you are super serious about getting your complete game on, I highly suggest going straight to it.

If you have any questions, shoot us an email: learn@heartworkuniversity.com

Every is welcome no matter your faith, gender, or lifestyle. None of our courses are meant to convert, but to only teach you HOW to LOVE yourself and others better. Love Your Neighbor as Yourself is the Golden Rule here too.

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Your Instructor

Kim O
Kim O
HeartWorkUniversity is the higher learning, living, and loving HOW HUB of online courses/coaching that are affordable and awesome to equip and empower people in these key elements: Authenticity, Compatibility & Compromise, Release History (Shame/Hurt/Trauma & Forgiveness HeartWork), Communication Skills, and Dating/Relationship Skills.

What is your HOW?

  • HOW do I love myself first and others with unconditional Love?
  • HOW do I date to attract my ideal mate?
  • HOW do I sustain a passionate relationship?
  • HOW do I value, see and hear others?
  • HOW do I value, see and hear myself?
  • HOW do I forgive those who have hurt me?
  • HOW do I stop the automatic negative talk in my head?
  • HOW do I communicate my needs kindly, honestly, and directly?
  • HOW do I create understanding rather than defensiveness?
  • HOW do I shift my mindset?
  • HOW do I stop overgiving/enable or making myself small?
  • HOW do I heal childhood trauma?
  • HOW do I manage my PTSD?
  • HOW do I stop being taken advantage of?
  • HOW do I stop being so needy and desperate?
  • HOW do I handle the longing to be loved?
  • HOW do I learn healthy compromise?
  • HOW do I shake the self-doubt?
  • HOW do I become confident in dating and intimate relationship when I have failed so many times?
  • HOW do I begin to shift my life and love life?
  • HOW do I know my purpose?
  • HOW do I use my gifts to coach/help others?

The Tenets of our Mission that we offer to self and others:

  • Unconditional Love
  • Accountability
  • Kindness / Compassion / Non-Judgement
  • Empowerment
  • Equipment

If you have been hurt/disappointed/angered by religion or religious dogmatists as I have been, I, Kim O, the creator of this school and the courses within, invite you to believe that you are safe and can experience with me the real intended purpose of religion: LOVE. Humans throughout history have messed up this message. I hope to enlighten you to find LOVE again and not be afraid to be reacquainted with these higher teachings of unconditional love, unconditional acceptance, and unconditional forgiveness - they set us free in life. Love Your Neighbor as Yourself is the Golden Rule indeed.

Everyone is welcome - whatever faith, lifestyle, gender or sexual orientation you are, you are beautiful and loved. Everyone will receive transforming wisdom that they can utilize in their lives and relationships.

I embrace many different terms to describe the Divine. Feel free to insert what feels most loving to you.

Love never fails. 1 Corinthians 13:8

My religion is very simple. My religion is kindness. Dali Lama

If you do not change direction, you may end up going where you are headed. Lao Tzu

Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions. Dali Lama

Do not judge...Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your neighbors eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own. Jesus, Matthew 7:1,3

Love one another. Jesus. John 13:35

Love your enemies. Jesus, Matthew 5:43

Pain is unavoidable but suffering is optional. Jack Kornfield (Buddhism for Beginners)

Hi I am Kim Oak. I am a recovered OverGiver, a recovered Hopeless Romantic, a recovered Xanax Addict, a recovered Self-Doubter/Loather, a recovered disempowered Dater and Relationshipper, a recovered Religious Dogmatist….to one powerful, awesome, embracing her Purpose, Authentic Self, Soul,Partner, Author, Coach and Founder of HeartWorkUniversity.com.

We would be honored to love and serve you.

Kim O and the HWU team

Kim O trained at the University of Minnesota in Psychology and The Southwest Institute of Healing Arts in Phoenix for Life Coach Training and Advanced Life Coach Certification. She is the author of Heartbreak to Wholeness and How to Sow.

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HeartWorkUniversity also includes HeartWorkU Life Coach Training program. Anyone who trains here has the option to partner with us and utilize these same programs with their clients. It is a win/win for everyone as we must become equipped and empowered to help a hurting world.

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