Silence Hurts More: How to Safely Start the Conversation with Your Partner and Dates

Understand the Root of Many Women's Struggle to Climax, How to Communicate & OverCome - course for both Women & Men

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There is a silent epidemic of women who are not climaxing.

Many women are in climax-less relationships.

Many women have shame around their abilities to climax.

Many women lie silently, unfulfilled, and too afraid to say anything to their mate.

Women deserve to climax.

Women must know that they are beautiful and perfect the way they are.

Women & Men must know the facts that women who climax quickly & easily are NOT THE NORM.

Whether single or in relationship, whether man or woman, together we can support women as they approach this issue, embrace themselves, and open themselves up to receive their climax.

In this course, I will walk you through how to even begin this difficult conversation and explain some of the reasons why the beliefs around women and climaxing are so way off base in our society.

I specifically address men & women separately and together, with comprehensive guidance on how to communicate climaxing challenges.

You can take this course alone, have your partner join you, or they can join you later after you have had time to warm up to your climax.

For Men, I share intimate details on how to create a safe, open, sexual environment in the bedroom, with guidance on how to touch and approach your partner. I guarantee after you have tried these techniques, you will erupt the tiger within your woman...giving you the best sex of your life and a very happy fulfilled woman!

For women, I share intimate details on how to allow your partner to give to you and how you are to simply receive. It may sound scary and tough right now, but, trust me, I will walk you both through this process in a beautiful safe way. You will be able to release your tiger within in no time at all.

I believe in you both!

No more shame or blame.

It's time to start climaxing!

With your serious commitment, you will achieve your love goals and enjoy safe communication while you discover the deeper pleasures of intimacy with one another..

If you would first like to contact an HWU coach to discuss your challenges safely, email us:


Every is welcome no matter your faith, gender, or lifestyle. None of our courses are meant to convert, but to only teach you HOW to LOVE yourself and others better. Love Your Neighbor as Yourself is the Golden Rule here too.

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Your Instructor

Kim O
Kim O
HeartWorkUniversity is the higher learning, living, and loving HOW HUB of online courses/coaching that are affordable and awesome to equip and empower people in these key elements: Authenticity, Compatibility & Compromise, Release History (Shame/Hurt/Trauma & Forgiveness HeartWork), Communication Skills, and Dating/Relationship Skills.

What is your HOW?

  • HOW do I love myself first and others with unconditional Love?
  • HOW do I date to attract my ideal mate?
  • HOW do I sustain a passionate relationship?
  • HOW do I value, see and hear others?
  • HOW do I value, see and hear myself?
  • HOW do I forgive those who have hurt me?
  • HOW do I stop the automatic negative talk in my head?
  • HOW do I communicate my needs kindly, honestly, and directly?
  • HOW do I create understanding rather than defensiveness?
  • HOW do I shift my mindset?
  • HOW do I stop overgiving/enable or making myself small?
  • HOW do I heal childhood trauma?
  • HOW do I manage my PTSD?
  • HOW do I stop being taken advantage of?
  • HOW do I stop being so needy and desperate?
  • HOW do I handle the longing to be loved?
  • HOW do I learn healthy compromise?
  • HOW do I shake the self-doubt?
  • HOW do I become confident in dating and intimate relationship when I have failed so many times?
  • HOW do I begin to shift my life and love life?
  • HOW do I know my purpose?
  • HOW do I use my gifts to coach/help others?

The Tenets of our Mission that we offer to self and others:

  • Unconditional Love
  • Accountability
  • Kindness / Compassion / Non-Judgement
  • Empowerment
  • Equipment

If you have been hurt/disappointed/angered by religion or religious dogmatists as I have been, I, Kim O, the creator of this school and the courses within, invite you to believe that you are safe and can experience with me the real intended purpose of religion: LOVE. Humans throughout history have messed up this message. I hope to enlighten you to find LOVE again and not be afraid to be reacquainted with these higher teachings of unconditional love, unconditional acceptance, and unconditional forgiveness - they set us free in life. Love Your Neighbor as Yourself is the Golden Rule indeed.

Everyone is welcome - whatever faith, lifestyle, gender or sexual orientation you are, you are beautiful and loved. Everyone will receive transforming wisdom that they can utilize in their lives and relationships.

I embrace many different terms to describe the Divine. Feel free to insert what feels most loving to you.

Love never fails. 1 Corinthians 13:8

My religion is very simple. My religion is kindness. Dali Lama

If you do not change direction, you may end up going where you are headed. Lao Tzu

Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions. Dali Lama

Do not judge...Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your neighbors eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own. Jesus, Matthew 7:1,3

Love one another. Jesus. John 13:35

Love your enemies. Jesus, Matthew 5:43

Pain is unavoidable but suffering is optional. Jack Kornfield (Buddhism for Beginners)

Hi I am Kim Oak. I am a recovered OverGiver, a recovered Hopeless Romantic, a recovered Xanax Addict, a recovered Self-Doubter/Loather, a recovered disempowered Dater and Relationshipper, a recovered Religious Dogmatist….to one powerful, awesome, embracing her Purpose, Authentic Self, Soul,Partner, Author, Coach and Founder of HeartWorkUniversity.com.

We would be honored to love and serve you.

Kim O and the HWU team

Kim O trained at the University of Minnesota in Psychology and The Southwest Institute of Healing Arts in Phoenix for Life Coach Training and Advanced Life Coach Certification. She is the author of Heartbreak to Wholeness and How to Sow.

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HeartWorkUniversity also includes HeartWorkU Life Coach Training program. Anyone who trains here has the option to partner with us and utilize these same programs with their clients. It is a win/win for everyone as we must become equipped and empowered to help a hurting world.

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I challenge you to invest in You!

There is no greater endeavor.

I am here, as a coach, teacher, and leader because of all of my mentors and coaches. I invested in me and it paid off loving who I am, what I do, and who I serve.

You are valuable and important.

You matter.

You deserve to Climax.

I send you love and light as you consider how you can start embracing this vital part of you and have your partner join you too!

Blessings on your journey!

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